A New York Times best-selling marriage book making a difference! More than one million copies sold! Based on over three decades of counseling, as well as scientific and biblical research, Dr.Įmerson Eggerichs and his wife, Sarah, have already taken the Love & Respect message across America and are changing the way couples talk to, think about, and treat each other. Revitalize the love in your marriage!Ī Focus on the Family Recommendation hardcover. Women are wired to need unconditional love and men need to feel unconditionally respected. His premise is that communication between a husband and wife is often frustrated because of the vastly different ways in which men and women perceive love. Emerson Eggerichs' book, Love & Respect: The Love She Most Desires, the Respect He Desperately Needs, is based on the biblical passage from Ephesians 5:33 ( But every husband must love his wife as he loves himself, and wives should respect their husbands - GODS WORD® translation).